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The Stardust
The club, 1975.
The Stardust was the only Gay club in Durban. It was a secret and only gay people and their friends knew about it. There was no sign on the anonymous door and you had to climb to the 3rd floor of a building down a dark alleyway between 2 of the main roads right in the centre of the city. Joan Dickman and I were taken there by Hilton Wolman in early January 1975. It was a small nightclub with a tiny dance floor and a bar. This was a completely new, scary and shocking world to us. I introduced the club to Patrick, Rory and Cindy and we had so much fun on the dancefloor that we began going regularly. We felt truly liberated there. In April Joan and I went to our first drag competition. Miss Natal 1975. The club was jam packed filled with screaming supporters of all these beautiful “girls”. We had never seen anything like it before. Joan suddenly realised that the queen who came third was in her maths class at university. The following Monday in the maths class she leant forward, tapped him on the shoulder and said “You looked fabulous on Friday night”. So began our friendship with Steven. From that moment onwards our lives would never be the same again.